There’s always a price for the prize.
Are you willing to pay it?
Actually this should read: there’s always a price. Period.
For you’ll either pay the price for your greatness; or you’ll pay the price of mediocrity.
Do you get the difference?
I’ve always been really straightforward with you, frank and to the point. Sometimes I’m just downright blunt; and I always will be.
I believe the time for us to collectively move beyond a magical mindset and romanticism is long overdue.
Don’t get me wrong, I understand there’s value in that romantic position. We all go through it at some point in our own evolution. This is the first point of entry in our realization that we have some type of impact and influence on our world.
It’s the beginning of a path of ever-unfolding awakening and awareness. Yet there is much more to the path to be learned. And you must keep walking.
It’s time to step forward.
In fact, developmental psychologists agree that there are at least seven level of conscious evolution; and you can’t skip any of them. The only way beyond anything is through it.
The only way beyond your current situation in life is through it.
The fact remains that there will always be more people in grade school then in grad school. That doesn’t mean that grade school is bad, it’s the beginning of the path. It’s where we all start. The wise understand that grade school is the foundation that must be mastered and integrated on the way to greater things.
Life is an ever-unfolding and winding path with many dips, falls and turns.
Get up. Keep walking.
Even those that tell you in some way-shape-or-fashion that there’s an easy quick way to the top are not getting there in an easy quick way. If you saw what was going on behind the scenes it might be shocking to say the least.
It’s in the struggle that greatness is born
The human experience is often a struggle. Steven Kotler writes in The Rise of Superman that during the times we’re really pushing to our next level of performance, there’s a time of darkness and frustration. Sometimes it’s a long time.
Things have to get messy before they become magnificent.
There will be times when you feel alone, misunderstood and maybe downright abandoned. There are times when you wish you could just be “normal” whatever the hell that means. Yet no one who was normal ever made history. Never have. Never will.
So let’s agree right now that while there is a magnificent and amazing path through life. There is no easy path. Accept it. Keep walking!
The path of life is not easy, nor is it meant to be.
Yet it’s beautiful and full of adventure.
When you accept the struggle on the road to greatness, it begins to change. Suddenly your struggles and challenges have meaning and purpose. The price you’re paying is for a cause.
That doesn’t mean it’s easy. That doesn’t mean you necessarily like it. A lot of the time you won’t.
But you can find the reason and purpose behind it. Do you follow?
“He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.”
~ Friedrich Nietzche
I get up at 3AM in the morning every single day. Except with a rare exception on the weekends, when I feel I need to catch up a bit on sleep.
When I started this practice I really didn’t like it at all. But it’s become a habit. A habit begun all the way back to my teenage years. A habit that has served me well.
When I became old enough to get my drivers’ license, I quickly bought a motorcycle with the money I had saved; and I signed up for two (not one), morning paper routes. This was not my first job by the way, just my first job starting at 4AM.
For whatever reason I’ve always had an attraction to hard work. My first job began at six years old standing on the corner of the local grocery store selling Grit Newspaper to the exiting shoppers.
“America’s Greatest Family Newspaper.” My first entrepreneurial adventure! Little did I know the true grit the entrepreneurial path takes.
All day Saturday and Sunday from early morning to late in the evening. I also mowed lawns in the local neighborhood.
In the winter I shoveled snow. Living in Oklahoma there was plenty snow to be shoveled. I remember countless nights going long after dark and telling myself “just one more house and then I’ll go home.”
Many nights a worried mom sent dad out to find me in the darkened neighborhoods. He could most often find me by following the trail the shovel made as it dragged behind me in the snow.
I was often just too exhausted to carry its weight any longer.
What drove me like this at this early age I’ll never know. At some level it just seems that I came in with this drive. And it still serves me to this day.
Like everything in this universe, it is both a blessing and a curse.
This work ethic drive certainly didn’t come from my parents or my peers. As my parents often scolded me for staying out too long and too late; and my peers jeered me for wanting to work instead of play.
And at some level that continues to this day. No one who was normal ever made history.
No one who was normal ever made history!
I recall being involved in a mastermind group of leaders in personal development years ago and having one of them tell me, “I’ve often thought that you work too hard.”
“The people who are trying to make this world worse are not taking a day off.
Why should I?”
~ Bob Marley
These many years ago my practice of getting up at 4AM began, which continues to this day. It even carried me through prison. 4AM was the only time I could experience a couple hours of silence. Now it’s moved up to 3AM.
The paper route was rough. The morning hours were cold and brutal. Especially for a 16 year old who often needed to study late into the night. School never came easily for me.
In the dark cold mornings in the dead of winter you could follow my tripod trail down the deeply covered snow-filled streets. The motorcycle tire tracks were book cased on either side, by my sneakers dragging in the often ankle deep snow, to stabilize the wobbly bike loaded with newspapers.
Numb feet were common-place.
Once again, there’s always a price for the prize.
Are you willing to pay it?
“If I rise early I can achieve so much more in a day; and therefore in life.”
~ Richard Branson
If you haven’t figure out one of the prices we’re speaking of here it’s early mornings. Coupled by the way with many late nights. Long hours; and hard work.
When you pursue your purpose you’ll work hard but it’s hardly work.
You’re doing what you’re here to do. You’re doing what you love.
I encourage many of my personal Ultimate Human Performance Coaching® clients to jump into what I call the “Golden Window of Productivity.”
Circadian rhythms tell us that the best sleep we get is between the hours of 2AM and 4PM and then again between 1PM and 3PM. This time in the early afternoon is when our energies dip.
If performance is your objective, then it seems to me that you want the deepest sleep; and yet you don’t need more than that.
It’s a fact that you sleep 33% of your life away. Fully 1/3 of your life is spent sleeping!
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not an advocate of sleep deprivation. Not a chance. Being deprived of sleep is counterproductive.
Like it or not, even with a full long life of one hundred years or more, it goes really, really quickly.
“There are those who do not fear death
For they are more afraid of not really living.”
~ Ancient Proverb
The price of greatness: early mornings and late nights. For you’re living your purpose and it cannot be denied.
“Hard work may not always result in success, but it will never result in regret.”
Yes, hard work is a given. But then again it’s hardly work when you love what you’re doing now is it?
And there’s more. Isn’t there always?
And the journey continues…
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